
Publisher and Publication Date: Riverhead Books/Penguin Random House. 2020.
Genre: Nonfiction. Memoir.
Pages: 241.
Format: Hardcover.
Source: Self-purchase.
Audience: Readers of memoirs in regard to reflection of hard times, character growth, and lessons learned.
Rating: Good.
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Katherine May’s Goodreads’ author page.
Summary:
Katherine May has written in Wintering what she experienced and learned during several events that happened during her 40s. These events include an illness for both her and her husband, a lengthy recovery process for her, a career change, and raising a son.
May is a reader, and she mixes into her memoir quotes from Sylvia Plath, C. S. Lewis, Carol Ann Duffy, and Barry Lopez.
My Thoughts:
There are several things I love about this book.
- It is a book to read slowly, savoring over well written and thought-provoking sentences.
- She uses nature to create a word picture about a subject. For example, later in the book there are references to the activity of ants and beehives. And she often mentions going for long walks to the beach.
- She is honest about her unbelief in religion. She refers to herself as a “middle-class” agnostic. She prays but to no particular idea or person. Why do I like this point? Because she is not shy about how she feels. I am a Christian. I am an active member in a church. I enjoy church. May comes across as not at a point where she needs or wants God. She wants to be able to agree with the belief system first. Most of the people I know are Christians. To hear about another type of belief or unbelief (to not have a belief in God is also a belief) is unique and different and enlightening to me. Even if I disagree.
- I enjoyed the reference to other books and authors.
- She encourages embracing the wintertime in life. Embrace and learn. It is important to grow from the experience.
- The book is filled with wonderful and meaningful quotes.
“More than any other season, winter requires a kind of metronome that ticks away its darkest beats, giving us a melody to flow into spring.” Page 115-116. She goes on to say it is important to pay attention and learn from this time or experience. I agree with this thought. But I’m thinking of the object, a metronome. A metronome is a small devise that is wound up by hand or set to help a pianist keep the right beat or rhythm. It is something that a human controls and sets. Whereas life is often not something that can be controlled. Further, sometimes the winter season in a person’ s life does not entirely go away. It does not go away because of serious health problems or other reasons. Some people have very hard lives.